Issues with stacks wallet

hi there! just tried sending 101,000 STX from wallet. I did everything as needed. Put the memo etc and proper address. i ended up paying $30 in BTC fees!! which i thought was nuts.

anyways… so now im waiting 1 hour+ and i get INVALID in the sent amount. So i read that this happens sometimes. So i refreshed wallet and now it says “SENT STACKS” but theirs no record on chain anywhere. Any help would be appreciated!